Elizabeth Loftus and Guido Zanni ran a version of the accident experiment that turned on a single letter.
Some participants were asked: Did you see a broken headlight? Others were asked: Did you see the broken headlight? The film contained no broken headlight. Participants asked the question with the definite article were significantly more likely to report having seen one.
The difference between a and the is the difference between introducing an object and presupposing one. A broken headlight asks whether such a thing existed. The broken headlight takes its existence as settled and asks only whether you observed it.
Presupposition is a well-studied property of natural language. Certain constructions carry content that is not asserted but assumed, and which survives negation — the standard test. If I say your brother is not coming, the claim that you have a brother survives the not; it was never part of what was being asserted, so denying the assertion leaves it intact. Definite descriptions, factive verbs like realize and regret, temporal clauses beginning when, and possessives all carry presuppositions this way.
The listener's problem is that to understand the sentence at all, you must build a mental model containing the presupposed content. Comprehension is not optional and it happens fast. By the time you are in a position to object, the object is already in the model, and — as Loftus and Zanni demonstrated — it stays there.
There is a further layer, which is conversational rather than semantic. Paul Grice's account of cooperative communication holds that listeners assume speakers are being informative, relevant and truthful. Presupposed content presents itself as common ground — as something both parties already accept — rather than as a claim being advanced. Challenging it therefore feels like a breach of the conversation, and most people will not do it, particularly under pressure, in public, or when the questioner has authority.
The complex question fallacy is the aggressive form. Have you stopped beating your wife presupposes that you were. Both answers concede it. Rejecting the presupposition requires refusing to answer, which reads as evasion — and the reading is not accidental, it is the point of using the construction.
The technique is standard equipment in several trades. Cross-examination is built on it, and the rule against leading questions in direct examination exists precisely because presupposition installs facts. Hostile interviewing uses it: why did your department ignore the warnings smuggles in that they were ignored. Sales uses the soft version constantly, which is the assumptive close of chapter 85: when would you like the installation, which presupposes the purchase.
The defense is unnatural to perform and easy to describe. You have to break the conversational contract, out loud, before answering. I am not going to accept the premise of that. There were no warnings of the kind you are describing, and here is what there was. It sounds pedantic and it feels rude, which is exactly the social cost the technique is charging you for the alternative.
The alternative is that your answer, whatever it contains, ratifies the premise for everyone listening.
Cross-ref: Part 4 statement analysis